Much Ado About Sex and love
“Sexual energy is just that, it’s energy. And where we choose to expend that energy makes all the difference in the world.” ― Joy McMillan
A while back, I was accosted by a man who professed his love for me and that he wanted to marry me. First of all, we had only just met that day and he was already proposing marriage. If that’s the way it works, almost all matured ladies should be married by now. Secondly, he was married. And, I began to wonder the reason for him having a wife if he was still going to be sleeping around.
Then, this made me remember what one of my colleagues once told me (which I still don’t believe). Paraphrasing him, he said, “God made man the way he is”. He also said, “Adultery is part of a man. And there is nothing that can be done about it”.
Oh really? If there was nothing to be done about it, does that mean if you see a mad person, you would have sex with her because adultery is in you and nothing can be done about it? Since you can’t sleep with just anyone, this means you can actually control yourself.
Anyway, I know that all what God made was good. But just as money can be deviated from the normal, sex can too. So, stop trying to justify the reason for some things you do. Lastly, never confuse sex with love.
Till the next post, keep learning.
